The Healing Pause

The grief of not knowing where you come from is real.

The counseling profession has not been trained to meet it. The Healing Pause exists to change that, for the people who carry this grief, and for the clinicians who sit with them.

The Framework

The H.E.A.L. Path™

A four-pillar framework for working with ancestral grief and cultural identity disruption. It is nonlinear and client-led, you do not move through it in order, you move through it as you are ready.

H

Honor

We honor the grief of lineage lost, without rushing it toward resolution.

E

Engage

We engage the body, the story, and the inherited memory as full participants in healing.

A

Affirm

We affirm the cultural, ancestral, and embodied truths the profession has been slow to name.

L

Liberate

We liberate the self from inherited silence and the inherited shame of not belonging.

The framework is nonlinear and client-led.

Dr. Lisa Ali, founder of The Healing Pause

Meet Your Guide

Hi, I am Lisa.

I am a licensed counselor, educator, and transracial adoptee who spent years moving through the world feeling disconnected from my roots, my lineage, and my own sense of belonging.

That journey inward, back toward my ancestors, my culture, and myself, is what H.E.A.L. Path was born from. This is not theoretical work for me. It is personal. It is lived. And it is ongoing.

I created this space for anyone who knows something is missing but has not yet found the language or the community to help them find their way back.

You do not have to do this alone. I did not, and neither do you.